你的内心脆弱吗？

The French Enlightenment writer Voltaire, the mechanistic materialist La Mettrie, and many other philosophers in the West believed suffering and happiness come from the world outside and that happiness cannot be produced by the mind. Thus, for a very long time, the Western world encouraged people to look outside for happiness.

启蒙运动时代的代表人物——法国思想家伏尔泰、机械唯物主义者拉梅特利在内的很多西方哲学家都认为，痛苦与快乐来自于外界，幸福不可能从内心产生，要寻找、追求幸福，一定要在外界去寻找。因此，西方人长时以来，一直鼓励人们往外追求幸福、寻找快乐。

This encouragement reinforced the natural tendency of people to seek happiness outside. In the few hundred years after the Industrial Revolution, people relentlessly pursued material wealth and comfort. However, in recent years, despite the steady increase in income levels in the West, the index on happiness has continued to decline. More and more people are now beginning to feel this kind of pursuit is wrong; one can argue that all their effort has failed.

一般人本来就误以为，幸福快乐来自于外界，再加上这些学者们的大肆鼓吹，所以在西方工业革命以后的几百年中，大家都拼命往外去追求幸福，但众所周知，尽管近年来西方发达国家的国民收入越来越高，但幸福指数却越来越低。到了今天，越来越多的人开始感觉到，这种追求是错的，一切的努力可以说已经走向失败了。

Buddhist teachers have repeatedly pointed out the importance of being mentally strong. People who are mentally weak are more likely to suffer.

佛教的精神导师们一再告诉我们，内心不要太脆弱。内心脆弱的人，更容易产生痛苦。

What is mental weakness? What kind of person is prone to mental weakness?

什么叫做内心脆弱？什么样的人会内心脆弱呢？

Strength and weakness may be hereditary to an extent; some people are naturally strong, others are naturally weak. But the more important factors are environment, educational background, and habitual dispositions. Relatively speaking, a person who is born into a wealthy family and educated in a prestigious institution is more likely to be mentally weak. As a result of this weakness, the person is fussy and difficult to work with. When this disposition develops into a habit, it becomes increasingly serious, to a point where all things are repulsive and unsatisfactory. In the end, such a person will find no meaning or happiness in life, and may even take drastic measures.

坚强和脆弱也许与遗传也有一点关系，有些人生来就比较坚强，有些人先天就比较脆弱。但绝大多数与环境、教育背景以及自己的习惯有很大关系。从小生长在富裕家庭当中，然后又在贵族学校读书出来的人，相对来说精神比较脆弱。因为精神脆弱，所以在任何问题上都很计较、很挑剔。养成这样的习惯以后，会越来越严重，以致发展到对任何人、任何事和任何环境，都产生强烈反感，所有东西都看不顺眼，找不到真正的满足感。最后的结果，是觉得生活没有意义、没有乐趣，最终可能会走上极端的路。